Starting something new always comes with butterflies—and let’s be real, some of those wings are fluttering around sex. When do you bring it up? Too soon feels pushy, too late feels awkward. The sweet spot is when the sparks are already flying and trust is warming up.

The trick? Don’t make it one big, heavy “talk.” Think of it as playful foreplay. Drop hints. Ask little questions. Share what makes you melt when they kiss you. Let the conversation build as naturally as the chemistry between you.

Pay attention to their cues—how close they lean in, how long a kiss lingers. And if they’re not ready? Slow down. Nothing’s hotter than making someone feel safe, seen, and respected.